Sex & Intimacy Couples Counselling & Couples Sex Therapy
Sex & Intimacy Couples Counselling
Work directly with Alice - Somatic Sexologist - and get a personalised sex & intimacy couples program tailored for you - because no two relationships are the same.
No matter what stage your relationship is at or what you are curious about, these couples sex therapy programs are designed to give you the tools and skills to bring more sexual happiness into your life and relationship.
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Example outcomes of couples sex therapy include:
- Deep knowledge of your bodies, what you like, and how to get it
- Great sexual communication
- Enhanced feelings of intimacy, chemistry and connection
- More sexual confidence and skills in the bedroom
- Ways to overcome libido mismatch and/or sexual differences
- Fun date night ideas and sexual activities to try together
- Resources, games and videos that are yours for life
- A fun, curious mindset (more pleasure, less pressure!)
- The skills and confidence to explore new fantasies and ideas together (now and into the future).
People who have a healthier, happier sex life experience improved confidence, relationships, mental health, physical health and better sleep. It's a win win!
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"Doing a sex and intimacy program or this kind of couples sex therapy in general was a very new concept for us and we weren't quite sure what to expect, but from the very first session Alice provided us with heaps of value.
She made us feel relaxed and open to sharing, opened our eyes to ideas, concepts and education we would have never thought about before, and provided plenty of homeplay to put our discussions into action!
We were surprised how quickly the sessions were effective to further open communication for us and start to discover new exciting areas to explore.
Alice has got a wealth of knowledge and skills across many domains and we couldn't recommend her enough!"
- J & P Couples Sex Counselling Clients
"WOW working with Alice was a total pleasure!
She holds the space in such a calm and safe way, but also allows you to challenge yourself and any preconceptions you might bring into the room.
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We came away from the program with our horizons expanded and our connections even stronger.
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Couldn’t recommend Alice more!"
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- T & M Couples Sex Counselling Clients
What to expect from couples sex therapy
✅ 100% Personalised.
Every session and all content is 100% personalised to you, your relationship and your goals. There are no 'cookie cutter' relationships and all sessions and programs reflect this. We always go at your pace, making sure you feel comfortable, safe, and supported throughout.
✅ Expert-led, judgement-free
Truama-informed, expert-led, and science-backed support from Somatic Sexologist Alice Child (online or in person). Sessions are a safe, welcoming space free of judgement.
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✅ Fun and educational sex & pleasure topics.
I teach key topics that are vital for a life of sexual happiness. These are carefully selected with your goals and desires at hear and I'm always flexible.
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✅ 1:2 and 1:1 sessions.
As well as couples sessions, you both have the chance to talk to me 1:1, diving into a topic that is most helpful for you personally.
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✅ Homeplay and connection games.
I always give homeplay' exercises, games and worksheets to try in your own time at home - these will be yours for life.
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✅ Fully flexible to your schedule.
100% flexible - each session can be booked at a time that works for your diary, and you can go entirely at your own pace. I recommend sessions every 2-3 weeks.
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✅ Inclusive to all.
No matter your age, gender, sexuality, or relationship structure, I work with anyone in a committed relationship looking to enhance their sex, intimacy and/or communication.. Extensive experience with LGBTQAI+, ethically non-monogamous, polyamorous, kink, D/s and BDSM.
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✅ Yours for life
Everything you learn (and all resources) are yours for life.
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✅ Ongoing personalised support from a Sexologist
Unlike most therapists, I will be with you at every step along the way to answer any questions you have, ensuring you get the most out of your experience.
Your journey to happier, healthier, and more
pleasure-filled lives begins here.
"We love and respect each other but the sex has never been great... are we sexually incompatible?"
Learn what you like and how to ask for it
Learn what you like and how to ask for it
"Our sex life is amazing but we we are always curious about what else could make it even better!"
Get new ideas & learn how to be even better in bed
"We're curious about threesomes and open relationships but don't want to ruin what we have"
Explore new needs and desires
"Tom has had erection difficulties for years and we have run out of ideas for how to connect intimately"
Overcome
concerns such as painful sex, ED, PE & orgasms
"Since having kids we have really struggled to prioritise sex and connect- Amy doesn't ever want it anymore"
Find intimacy despite mis-matched libido
We've been together almost 20 years and are looking for more ideas to bring some of our old spice back!
Increase your sex drive and maintain attraction
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What are your services?- 1:1 sex coaching and sex counselling with individuals - Bespoke sex & intimacy couples programs and sex counselling for couples - Pillow Play - an online sex & intimacy course for couples - Regular online and in-person sex education workshops, talks and events - Private parties and hens parties - Collaborations and media opportunities - get in touch
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What is a Somatic Sexologist?A Sexologist is somebody who has studied the science of sex; learning the anatomy, physiology, psychology, and cultural influences around sex, arousal, desire and pleasure. Somatics is any practice that develops and strengthens the mind-body connection. Somatic practices teach you how to mindfully scan and listen to your body. Somatic Sexology takes somatic practices and adapts them to teach people how to have better sex. As a Somatic Sexologist, I help people get out of their head, and into their bodies. A full list of my qualifications can be seen on my homepage.
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Who do you work with?I offer an inclusive and judgment-free educational space for people of all genders, sexuality and identity. My work is LBGTQIA+ inclusive, and welcome people of all relationship structures, stages, and expressions. My coaching and counselling sessions and couples programs are always personalised to the unique person or people I am working with. My events are always tailored for a specific audience. The content and tone that would be suitable for a corporate consent seminar would be very different from an intimate hens party for example. My online course Pillow Play has been designed for couples wanting to improve their sexual skills and bring more connection, fun, novelty and chemistry into the bedroom. No matter what you're looking for, get in touch and we can curate the perfect experience.
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Why do we need more sex education?Sexual wellness (including pleasure) is a human right, as defined by the World Health Organisation. When we have a healthy, happy sex life, it has been proven that our mental heath and physical health improves, along with our relationships. In addition, a consent aware, shame-free society that receives comprehensive sex education is also less likely to suffer from high rates of sexual violence, assault and abuse. It's time we saw sex and pleasure as a natural, normal, and healthy part of life. The sex education we received at school is not enough. Many adults know next to nothing about basic sex-ed, including pleasure anatomy, sexual communication, how to express consent, understanding arousal, orgasm and desire, navigating libido changes, and how to listen to their own bodies. This impacts our relationships and people don't know where to go for help. In addition, we still live in a conservative society where sexual shame is pervasive, and where many of us are still too embarrassed, fearful, or ashamed to talk about sex. In order to have a great sex life, we need to learn how to listen to our bodies, discover what we like, how to ask for it, and how to confidently give and receive pleasure. Sex coaching, sex counselling, sex therapy, couples counselling, relationship counselling, sex courses and sex-education workshops give people a safe, expert-led, and judgement-free space to explore and learn everything they need to achieve better sexual wellness.
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What is sex coaching and sex counselling?No matter what you're curious about, sex coaching / sex counselling gives you an expert-led, judgement-free environment to learn and discover more about sex, relationships and pleasure. I combine mindfulness, coaching, education and counselling techniques to help you get out of your head, and into your body. It will give you practical exercises, tools and vocabulary to help you achieve your goals- what ever that means for you. My sessions are 100% client-led, meaning I tailor every session to the specific goals and desires of the individual or couple.
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Are you open to media opportunities?Absolutely. For all media enquiries including talks, interviews and feature articles, please get in touch.
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I already have great sex - what else could you teach me?Fantastic! It's great to hear you have a fulfilled sex life. The great news is, when it comes to sex and pleasure, there is always more to discover. And the more curious and open minded you are, the more opportunities for pleasure you will find. Whether that's learning how to explore a particular erotic fantasy, giving yourself stronger (or multiple) orgasms, learning more about your pleasure anatomy, or wanting to know where to find the best sex toys on the market, talking to an expert in a judgement-free environment might lead to more discoveries than you expected. Check out my programs and online course Pillow Play